Because life is a learning experience, we can never tell exactly how it is going to play out, no matter how hard we plan and try to get our heads round the scheme of things. That we will learn is certain, sooner or later. We can't stop the universe from expanding. We will never be able to control our destiny, but we can surely consciously influence it with our life's designs. Too much fixation with goals is stifling. We need to embrace new experiences as they come along, good and bad if possible. This is the best way to learn faster, and develop a deep trust in life.
Then we will start to “dance" with our destiny.